Annoying comment of the day

well... here it is "Atleast you have Luke"... hmm tell my beautiful... giving and caring 5 year old son who desperately wants a baby sister or brother that... geez... and from someone that I am close to... who should know better... I know that I have an amazing little boy and I count all my blessings for him every single day... do I deny anyone else their happiness of having another child or of even trying... should I just be satisfied and content with having the amazing family I have even when my little boy asks why we havent gotten another baby or when he kisses my stomach because their might be a baby in their... maybe someone should tell my sweet boy that he should be grateful to be alive and be happy with that... do people have to live these heartaches every day... and look in the eyes of an innocent child and try and explain why they dont have that brother or sister they want... is it so hard to just listen and offer some comfort or a hug or even just a shoulder to cry on... do people really think these comments will make things seem brighter... because they dont... all it does is amplify the pain... and suggest I am not grateful for my sweet boy who I treasure with all my heart and soul... if only I could be filled with all this ignorance that some people experience every day then I may not know this pain that I live with every day... makes it so much worse when its from someone that should know... that has been there from the very start...that could have offered a shoulder instead of a solution... in their eyes anyway... if people listened maybe they would understand if they truly wanted to understand... now Im just waiting for someone to come and explain to Luke that he should just be grateful that he has us.